In its issue of September 26, 1914, The New Rochelle Pioneer carried this sketch by John William Kellette: “Ethyle Cooke Benham, wife of Handsome Harry’ and mother of those charming Benham children, Leland, aged 8, and Dorothy, aged 3, is a Boston girl, and she has two nicknames—Cookie’ and Beanie,’ the last from the famous provender of her native city. Mrs. Benham is distinctly a home-lover and home-builder, and delights, after her labors at the local studio are over for the day, to hurry to get home, 21 Rhodes Street, and attend to the wants of her family. She supervises her own home, having, of course, maids that do the menial work, but she is in touch with every detail that means so much for home comfort.
“Mrs. Benham is known as a perfect blonde, and here’s a secret—she’s a southpaw. Were she of the other gender some baseball magnate would be trying to sign her up to pitch for his club, and in that event, the screen would lose a good artist. Mrs. Benham plays everything from maid parts to star roles in her stories for the screen, and the maid’s part gets as much finesse as the star role. Her latest big thing was in Stronger Than Death, in which she shared honors with her famous husband.
“Motoring is her favorite pastime, but in swimming season she spends much time at the beach. Hudson Park is a favorite recreation ground for her, and the children are always sure of a good time when the park is mentioned. It is because of her sincere family affection that Cookie’ has endeared herself to those New Rochelleans who have the honor of her confidence, and she personally teaches Leland and Dorothy in the ways and paths that they should go, both in private and professional life. She loves this city. She takes delight in rambling through the byways of New Rochelle little known to the average inhabitant, where, in spring, the birds can be watched and their gladsome songs heard, and in winter she wanders to the habitat of the squirrel and chipmunks to hear their chatter. She knows every wildflower, bird or feathered songster, and takes delight in studying them. She is a dancer of rare proficiency, and can always be found starring in dance parts in the films. Her movements are in perfect rhythm and her youth and grace photograph well. She idolizes her family, and doesn’t care if all the women in the world are in love with Handsome Harry.’”